After working in children’s ministry for more than 38 years
and directing a children’s nonprofit for 11 years, you’d think I’d be aware of contemporary
children’s culture and what meets their needs. But during my trip out west with
my grandchildren, I threw everything I thought about today’s kids out of my RV window.
Knowing we would pass through some amazing national parks, I
envisioned the kids’ awe of God’s beautiful creation. But I didn’t expect how
hard it would be to even get them look.
In an earlier post I wrote about my oldest grandson who
spent most of his time at the dining room table. What I didn’t say was that he
was connected to his iPod every day, all day long. In fact, each child had some
electronic device they were attached to from morning to night. Whenever I
wanted their attention for a roadside attraction I had to shout, “Hey you guys!
Look at this!”
By the fourth day I was hoarse.
Never have I been so impacted by how an electronic device
can capture a child’s attention. It didn’t matter if they are watching movies,
playing video games, or like my oldest grandson, watching a TV series from long
ago that had more than 80 hours of episodes! The amount of time they spent
looking down (at their devise) instead of looking out the window astounded me.
We spent a lot of time on the road each day driving from one
destination to the next. Some of the scenery was less than interesting. During
these drives I tried to remember what I used to do on long road trips as a
child. I remember that I couldn’t read books because I got car sick. I usually
didn’t bring toys because there just wasn’t room with two sisters and my parents.
I remember looking out the window a lot; this helped me learn my way around
town, which came in handy when it was time to get my driver’s license. But this
was different.
Capturing a child’s attention is not as simple as it was
even just a few years ago. Their little hand-held devices draw them in like a
magnet and it holds them there—captive. How do parents and teachers compete
with this? How was I supposed to compete and draw them away?
Well, I didn’t have to wait long to find the answer to that
question?
On the fourth day we headed into Estes National Park and
Rocky Mountain National Park. Seeing mountains for the first time became an
ethereal experience for my grandkids. The magnificent scenery lured their eyes
up to the heavens instead of down into their devices. We stopped at every turn
in the road to take more pictures. They even complained that their phones
didn’t have enough memory to hold all their photos! No, I didn’t have to worry
about where their attention was, that day it was captured by God’s amazing
creation. It was refreshing to hear their comments about this first-in-their-life
experience. I took pictures of their expressions so I wouldn’t forget.
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